I think that entirely depends on the comfort we're referring to.

[He could drown in that gaze? Sighing softly as he cups Emet's cheeks, for a moment giving him the softest look, before he smirks a little.]

Shall I take that as an invitation to play a little rough? Though I suppose that was somewhat the point to begin with.

[He doesn't wait for acknowledgement, tugging at the ropes a little more sharply than is strictly comfortable.]