[ he wants to argue that it's different - that Emet's tempering is the result of him trying to save his people, that it's something he couldn't prevent.

And then he realizes before the words are out that it's not really that different for him, and if he wants Emet to believe he can deal with his Tempering, then he needs to believe in Emet too. ]

Every single time you make me wonder what I could have possibly done to deserve you.